Fully Engaged


Couples marrying in the Diocese of Rochester take the Fully Engaged inventory during their marriage preparation time, usually six months to a year before the wedding.

Fully Engaged is self-diagnostic and designed to help couples learn more about themselves and their unique relationship. It provides individualized couple feedback on where each partner stands in regard to topic areas important to marriage. Fully Engaged was developed to reflect the values and ideals of marriage as sacred.

There are currently two options for completing the inventory:

– In person with a trained and certified facilitator from the parish
-Online, after registering with a parish facilitator

A parish- based facilitator follows up with the couple after the inventory is completed. This is a conversation about the inventory results and the Sacrament of Matrimony.

Online Inventory
Facilitator emails [email protected] with the following information:

-Groom’s Name (first & last) & Email
-Bride’s Name (first & last) & Email
-Wedding Date
-Marriage or Convalidation

In Person Inventory
Facilitator emails couples’ inventory to [email protected] or mails to:

Diocese of Rochester
Attn: Fully Engaged
1150 Buffalo Road
Rochester, NY 14624

If you have any questions, please contact Don Smith at

[email protected] or 585-328-3228 ext. 1243.